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You cannot have a happy ending to an unhappy journey. ~Abraham-Hicks


HAPPINESS DEFINED: The ability to be at peace, regardless of your circumstances. ~rln

Questions to Ask Yourself

On a scale from 1-10, how important is happiness in your life?

What is your definition of happiness?

What or who is subtracting from your happiness today?

Are you as happy when you’re faced with life’s inevitable challenges?

Answer YES or NO:

Can other people hurt your feelings?
Can other people offend you?
Can other people disappoint you?
Do you blame other people for how you feel?
Do you blame your circumstances for how you feel?

The Formula for Happiness

Happiness is a practiced skill. And like any other skill, the more you commit to the practice—and it is a daily practice, the better the results. The question to ask yourself is, are you ready to prioritize happiness over everything else? Your answer will determine how much happiness you will experience on the journey.

Listed below are 10 of the most common behaviors that have been proven to subtract from happiness; 

Having Expectations
Blaming Someone Else or a Circumstance for How You Feel
Comparing Yourself to Others
The Inability to Change a Perspective or a Belief
Lack of Acceptance of Others
Believing Words have Power
All Attachments
Noticing what Other People are Doing (Mind your Buisness)

The second part of the practice is cultivating behaviors that have been proven to add to happiness;

Acceptance of Self and others
Trust that Everything that Happens has a Purpose
Don’t Take Anything Personally
Laugh Out Loud Every Day
Humble Your Ego
BE Yourself
Choose Your Perspective & Choose Your Focus
LET GO of Trying to Control Anything or Anyone Outside of Self
Be Okay with Uncertainty

Rebecca L. Norrington

Happiness Specialist

Rebecca is first and foremost a student of the Universe and its Laws. She has a Bachelor of Science degree in Psychology, along with decades of education and training on topics from Spirituality to Human Behavior. Her professional journey includes several vocations: Happiness Specialist, Radio & TV Host, Author, Speaker, Fitness Instructor and Reiki Practitioner

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